At some point in our life we all ponder the question; how can I make a difference? Such a simple question with an answer that differs for us all, but one must remember that a difference does not always equal out to material gain. Sometimes the biggest difference one make is through an emotional connection. Adoption has been that difference in my life.

I was adopted at the age of 17 months. There is no recollection of my life before that time but the what-ifs are still inevitable. I cannot say where I would be or what I would be doing but I can say that I wouldn’t change where I am or what I am doing now for the world.

The family that God has blessed me with has been and is still my backbone and support. It hasn’t always been easy, from dealing with the adoption issues to the wonderful teenage years. I certainly wasn’t the angel child all parents dream about. A little hard work and perseverance has only made the bond between us that much stronger.

No child deserves to be without that bond shared by a parent and a child.

Even the smallest difference made goes without some sacrifice. Some sacrifices made will be greater than others, but the outcome is equally rewarding. Adoption is one way to make a change in the world. Who knows that child that you choose to open your heart to could be the next Einstein or even the President of the United States, or someone who teaches and influence the next Einstein or President. My grandfather taught Prince Phillip, who is now married to Queen Elizabeth, the Queen of England. A little guidance can take one a long way. Remember you may be one person to the world, but to one person you may be the world.